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"If we're not healthy and functioning as parents, it's very hard to look after our children and give them the love and parenting that they need," says Hiscock. "There are some people who say we have to put the baby first and don't worry about the parent, and I just think that's wrong, because if you don't have a mum who's healthy and thriving, it's hard to have a baby who's healthy and thriving. It's a relationship dynamic – it's not one or the other."